Confessions of a shopaholic!
A day in the life of a shopping trip with me: Yesterday I went on a trek to Ross to purchase a one-piece bathing suit for more coverage than my much too itty bitty bikini’s I normally don, so I can stop worrying about adjusting and just have fun in the sun.
I found the perfect Calvin Klein simple black one-piece for only $19.99 (instead of $92, which why I love Ross, designer duds for less) But then, of course, I also found the “perfect” over-sized, sheer button-up shirt / cover-up (only 12.99!) I tried it on and it was the ideal, on-a-vacation-at-a-fancy-resort look, I was going for, for a day at the spa with my sister and Mom. Reasoning in my head that it’s so cheap, I then move on to shorts. What will I wear with my new one-piece and cover-up? After trying on shorts, I rule them out but then decide to (window) shop shoes.
Low and behold, I find the “perfect” Roxy bronze flip-flops to complete my resort look. I have to get them (I tell myself), they’re only 12.99 (Apparently Ross likes this price). However, I took a moment of calculating in my head, that I’m now up to almost $50, to solemnly conclude that this is why I can never stick to my budget(s). Little things add up oh-so quickly! Deciding to be obedient to my budget, I put the must-have accessories away and triumphantly walked out with one item. (after paying of course) The one item I needed.
As I walked out, it felt rewarding to realize that I do not need things or the perfect accessorized outfit to have a great time. I think as a woman I put a great deal of importance to (wanting) to look just right and wear new things every new season, but God says that beauty is fleeting (I think He must have meant fashion too) but that a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised (who doesn’t want to be praised!) :) To not allow our adornment to be merely outward but that of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is precious in God’s sight.
Just a little reminder to myself to spend less energy (and God-given resources) on what’s fleeting and focus more on clothing myself with God’s word (which produces hope, patience, kindness, compassion and love, to name a few - the true “perfect” accessories) and so that even if I don’t outwardly look as fabulous as I would hope, I have so much more to offer others, through God, who makes us beautiful within!






